Monday, June 20, 2011

Why do hijab & niqab are important...



As salam...a little sharing from me. When I'm still schooling, that was in d 90s...those women with niqabs are called 'zorro' or 'kum kum'. Which now, I don't agree anymore with all the nicks...in university days, a lot of my friends wearing niqabs...and when seeing them is our room or maybe in majlis muslimahs or informal meetings in our desasiswa, they dont wear the face cover...and they're stuntly pretty...Yes....and their beauty are only for their husbands...lucky husbands...=)


I came across few articles about hijabs and niqabs, why is it very important for girls or women...basic, hijabs & niqabs menyelamatkan semua gadis & wanita daripada melakukan dosa. Pemakaian yang sopan akan disertai dengan tingkahlaku yang sopan dan menghindari daripada melakukan dosa. Insya Allah...


2ndly, ia juga menyelamatkan all the guys daripada mendapat dosa daripada pemakaian kita...and juga bagi yang dikurniakan dengan wajah yang cantik, ia akan mengelakkan fitnah serta lelaki yang belum berkahwin, jatuh hati dengan wanita yang sudah berkahwin, atau sebaliknya...


3rdly...exclusive...hanya suami sahaja yang boleh menatap kecantikan isterinya...tidak dikongsi dengan lelaki lain...indah kan! Itu yang sepatutnya.


4thly...no need all the makeups...makeup ini adalah himpunan colours yang banyak merosakkan wajah, menambah apa yang sedia ada terbaik anugerah Allah SWT...kadang-kala, we tend to over do it...makeup berlebihan untuk lelaki yang bukan suami...so, hijabs & niqabs is our safety tools untuk elak kita terlibat dengan semua tu...


And ada banyak lagi...manfaatnya...and...I pray that one day it;s my turn to wear niqab...Insya Allah...because, when the time comes, I will only reveals myself to my husband...and tutup bahagian yang perlu ditutup untuk menjaga nama baik suami...suami juga kurang dosa. =)


I support niqab...=)

Wednesday, June 15, 2011

4 Years in LOVE














4..a lovely number. Yes. Can't believe our marriage already turning 4, 16th of June...wow...Alhamdulillah. Allah SWT, you brought to me, indeed a good men, a good friend, a good soulmate, a good boyfie, a good fiancee, a good hubby and a good daddy to our kids.


There's more to come, Insya Allah. I pray that our marriage will remain strong until our last breath. I really love you...from Day 1 we're together til today. Despite all our weaknesses, arguments and disagreeness, I love you still. I cant' imagine life & love without you...serious.


Zafri...our mariage doesn't have it's ups and downs, it's only things around us that sometimes test our patience and trust...our marriage, Alhamdulillah, remain as strong as ever, even stronger thru time.


Sayang...I love you. Happy 4th Anniversary.

Monday, June 6, 2011

How is it to be...ME!







Sometimes...people around me couldnt help it but to ask...how is it to be married with a singer? My answer is very simple...is like married to a man that you love but the bonus part is, your husband is a public figure. There's nothing abnormal about marrying a singer, they still eat when hungry, sleep when sleepy etc...so, they're just humans, and wanted to be treated like humans...=)


What is to be ME? Haha...hard, I may say. It's actually a warning. Don't ever dream to be ME because my life is not as beautiful as you imagined. Haha, I'm not talking about my love life, marriage and family hah...it's about my general life, at work etc...


You can imagine people talking BAD about you bt you actually never spoke to that person...and you can ask me how I feel, I feel funny...it's funny, because I actually never bother to feel irritated but there's a question poppin' in my head..."Who are you, and why are you talking shit about me?"


You can imagine people making bad stories about your partner, your marriage and family...well, I face that from day 1 I'm with my hubby as a boyfie/girlfie...the stories never stop until now, after we have 2 kids...and maybe until we die...gosh, that bad huh! =)


You can imagine people make fun of you, making a group to talk bad things about you...it's like peserta AF that have their own fanclub but mine, I Hate Jaja fanclub...haha...yeah yeah...not to that extend, but kinda like it laaa...omaigod, I just don't know, what did I do to receive all this...


And so many things...at work, outside of work, with people around me...etc...sometimes, I just don't know how to trust other people, and I hope these friends that I have around me are real...I love you girls (u know who u r)...=)

Wednesday, June 1, 2011

Doa

As salam warahmatullah hiwabarakatuh...


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